Sexy Secrets: Boudoir Wardrobe Essentials
Your Ultimate Guide to Choosing Boudoir Outfits: Feel Fabulous in Your Skin!
Hey, you lil beautiful THANG, YOU!
Welcome to the world of boudoir photography, where the spotlight is all about YOU and embracing your unique beauty! Whether you’re planning to flaunt your sexiest lingerie or rock a cozy t, this guide is here to help you feel amazing, confident, and totally yourself during your boudoir session. Let’s dive in and explore the endless possibilities for your unparalleled experience!
1. Embrace Your Comfort Zone (or Step Out of It!)
Boudoir photography is all about celebrating YOU. There’s no one-size-fits-all approach. Whether you feel your best in a delicate lace set, or you love the feel of a simple, oversized shirt, the choice is yours! Remember, there’s no wrong way to do boudoir. If you want to be nudged out of your comfort zone in a safe space, I’m here for it! AND If you want to show up and be your lil spicy self, I’m here for that, too! Either way, our mission is that you feel safe, encouraged & empowered throughout your entire experience & beyond!
Comfortable & Cozy: Think about those soft, worn-in pieces you adore. A favorite t-shirt, a slouchy sweater (exposing a shoulder is a nice lil sessy touch), or even just a simple pair of boyshorts can be incredibly sexy and authentically YOU.
Glammed Up: On the flip side, if you've always wanted to step out of your comfort zone (like me), this is the perfect opportunity. Imagine elegant lingerie, sky-high heels, and dazzling makeup. Go all out and enjoy the transformation! Don’t you worry, I’ve got a hair and makeup artist on deck who will BLOW your mind!
2. Choose What Makes You Feel Good
Your boudoir session is a celebration of your beauty and confidence. The key to looking incredible is feeling incredible. Pick outfits that make you feel empowered, sexy, and confident.
Lingerie: From delicate lace to bold satin, choose pieces that accentuate your favorite features. Bras, panties, bodysuits, and garter belts are all fantastic choices. If you don’t KNOW what accentuates your features, share with a trusted friend, partner or…lil ol’ me! I’ll support you in choosing the right outfits if that’s where you need support. holla at me here: whitney@whitneybrewer.com
Casual & Personal: Sometimes, the simplest outfits can be the most intimate. Your button-down nightgown, a cozy cardigan, or even your favorite pair of jeans can make you feel amazing.
Examples of such things that could make you feel good but you might not know about yet:
1. Teddy
A teddy is a one-piece garment that combines a camisole and panties. It’s often made from lace, satin, or silk and can be incredibly flattering for many body types.
Why You'll Love It:
Great for highlighting your legs.
Can be simple or very detailed with lace and embellishments.
Perfect for a sexy yet comfortable look.
2. Corset
Corsets are structured garments that cinch the waist and enhance the bust, creating an hourglass figure. They can be paired with matching panties or a garter belt for an ultra-glamorous look.
Why You'll Love It:
Offers fantastic support and shaping.
Can be worn over or under other pieces for a layered look.
Adds a vintage, romantic vibe to your photos.
3. Bodysuit ***A WHITNEY FAVORITE FOR ALL BODY TYPES***
A bodysuit is a one-piece, form-fitting garment that covers the torso and crotch. It’s versatile and comes in a variety of styles, from sheer lace to sleek satin.
Why You'll Love It:
Smooths out your silhouette and highlights your curves.
Can be worn alone or paired with skirts, shorts, or jeans for a modern look.
Offers a sleek, chic appearance.
4. Bralette and Panty Set
A matching bralette and panty set is a classic choice. Bralettes are often more comfortable than traditional bras and come in many designs, from sporty to romantic.
Why You'll Love It:
Offers a cohesive, put-together look.
Available in numerous styles and materials.
Can be mixed and matched with other pieces.
5. Garter Belt and Stockings
Garter belts are worn around the waist and used to hold up stockings. Paired with a bra and panty set or a corset, they add a touch of vintage glamour.
Why You'll Love It:
Adds an extra layer of allure to your outfit.
Creates a classic, elegant aesthetic.
Enhances the look of your legs.
6. Chemise
A chemise is a short, slip-like garment that is often made of silk or lace. It’s loose-fitting and can be very comfortable.
Why You'll Love It:
Flows beautifully and feels luxurious against the skin.
Can be more modest while still being sexy.
Great for creating a soft, romantic look.
7. Robe
A robe can be worn over any lingerie piece for a layered effect. It can be sheer, satin, or lace, and adds a touch of mystery.
Why You'll Love It:
Perfect for adding variety to your photos.
Easy to slip on and off for different looks.
Adds an element of elegance and sophistication.
8. Bustier
Similar to a corset, a bustier is a form-fitting top that extends to the waist, enhancing the bust and shaping the waist.
Why You'll Love It:
Provides great support and shaping.
Can be worn as outerwear for a bold, fashionable look.
Often has beautiful detailing and boning.
9. High-Waisted Panties
High-waisted panties offer a vintage-inspired look and can be incredibly flattering, especially when paired with a matching bra or bralette.
Why You'll Love It:
Accentuates the waist and elongates the legs.
Provides a bit more coverage while still being sexy.
Perfect for a retro-chic vibe.
3. Mix & Match
Don’t be afraid to get creative and mix different styles. Pairing a luxurious robe with simple lingerie can create a stunning, layered look. Or try combining a chic bralette with high-waisted shorts for a modern twist. I’ve had clients wear bathing suit coverups, and oversized sweaters, the possibilities are endless!
4. Accessorize!
Accessories can add that extra flair to your boudoir shoot. Think about including:
1. High Heels
High heels not only elongate your legs but also add a touch of elegance and sophistication to your photos. They can be paired with any outfit, from lingerie to a simple shirt.
2. Jewelry
Statement necklaces, bracelets, and earrings can add a glamorous touch to your photos. Delicate chains and body jewelry/chains can also enhance your look, drawing attention to your favorite features.
3. Your Partner’s Clothing
Wearing your partner's button-down shirt, t-shirt, or even tie can add a personal and intimate touch to your photos. It’s a great way to include a part of them in your session, if that’s what you’re going for!
4. Books
If you’re a book lover, bringing a few of your favorite novels can add a unique and personal element to your shoot. They can be used as props to create a relaxed, cozy vibe.
5. Flowers
Fresh flowers or a flower crown can add a soft, romantic touch to your photos. Choose blooms that complement your outfits and the overall vibe of YOU. Snag the ones that you vibe with the most!
6. Blanket or Throw
A cozy blanket or throw can be used to create a warm, inviting atmosphere. It can be draped over furniture or wrapped around you for a snug, intimate look. I have a fur-skin rug and it is DELISH.
7. Hats
A stylish hat, like a wide-brimmed hat , cowboy hat, a fedora,etc. can add a fun and fashionable element to your photos. It’s a tiny, simple prop that can change the vibe of your shoot! Have fun with it!
8. Lace or Satin Robe
A robe can add an extra layer of elegance and mystery to your photos. It’s perfect for creating a variety of looks, from demure to daring. This can look like a bathing suit cover-up, a lace robe from Amazon or a satin robe from Macy’s. Your choice! Pick the texture and vibe that will be guaranteed to be used again and again!
9. Musical Instruments
If you play a musical instrument, bringing it along can add a personal and artistic touch to your photos. It showcases your personality and interests in a really unique way.
Final Tips:
Choose Props That Reflect You: The best props are those that reflect your personality and interests. They should feel natural and meaningful to you.
Coordinate with Your Outfits: Make sure your props complement your outfits and the overall theme of your shoot. If you need support, reach out and ask! I got you!
Have Fun with It: Don’t be afraid to get creative and experiment with different props. This is your moment to shine and express yourself.
Bringing props can make your boudoir photoshoot even more special and personalized. Enjoy the experience and have fun capturing your unique beauty!
5. It’s All About the Details
Sometimes, it’s the little things that make the biggest impact. Think about incorporating:
Textures: Satin, silk, lace, corduroy, and velvet can add depth and interest to your photos. Have fun with it!
Colors: Choose colors that complement your skin tone and make you feel fabulous. Classic black, white, and red are always great choices, but don’t be afraid to experiment with other hues. I want to encourage you to go with what feels yummy to you. If you don’t know, try shit on! See what you like. Take the time to pour into yourself. This is part of the process! If you need support along the way, holla at me! I got you!
6. Feeling Good on a Budget
Looking and feeling amazing doesn’t have to break the bank. There are plenty of affordable options out there that can make you feel like a million bucks. Here is a list of fantastic websites that offer stunning pieces for every body shape and size, all at budget-friendly prices.
https://www.amazon.com/s?k=lingerie&crid=17OZM82UOUJC9&sprefix=lingerie%2Caps%2C112&ref=nb_sb_noss_2
https://www.fredericks.com/ (one of my favs)
https://us.shein.com/?ref=www&rep=dir&ret=us (affordable if you're ballin' on a budget)
https://www.victoriassecret.com/us/vs/lingerie
https://www.etsy.com/search?q=lingerie&ref=search_bar
https://www.thistleandspire.com/ (female owned)
https://us.honeybirdette.com/ (pricey)
https://www.playfulpromises.com/
https://www.savagex.com/
https://www.soma.com/
You's a curvy honey?! I got you!
7. Be Yourself
The most important thing to remember is to be true to yourself. Whether you’re a minimalist at heart or love all things glamorous, your boudoir session should fully reflect your personality and style. This is your moment to shine, so have fun with it! Let it RIP! Be that you that you’ve been wanting to unleash your whole fucking life. Your time is now. Let’s fucking go, baby!
Final Thoughts
Your boudoir session is all about celebrating YOU. There’s no need to adhere to any rules or standards. Whether you’re glamming it up, keeping it natural or anything in between, the goal is to feel beautiful, confident, free, safe, brave and empowered. Enjoy the experience, embrace your uniqueness, and most importantly, have the best fucking day of your life!
Can’t wait to see what you rock to your boudoir session!
Love,
-W